Are you in an unsafe relationship?

Did you start out in your relationship feeling like you had met the one? Only to find it has got harder and harder to stay happy in this relationship as time has gone by?

If so, you might not be in a safe relationship. Subtle changes can start to occur as time moves on. It might be a snide comment here or there, that really hurts you, or you could be called awful names. 

Or maybe you have been accused of cheating on your partner, when you haven’t at all, or feel as though you are walking on eggshells, too scared to tell the truth in case you get accused further.

Maybe your partner checks your phone to see who you have been calling, or texts you constantly to check up on you? Or possibly even discouraging you from seeing friends or family, or they may say they say they don’t like them.

Have you been trying to love your partner more, and doing so much for them, to have them turn around and say you don’t love them or care for them? Even though you have given them all the strength you have and love them with every fibre of your being?

You feel so lost, and just don’t know what else you can give them, and feel so depleted in your own life, due to making them your ultimate focus

Your relationships with family and friends are suffering, because you have nothing left at the end of the day to give to others? Or they don’t think your partner treats you well.

Feeling tired and worn out, and starting to develop auto-immune disorders such as eczema, IBS, arthritis or even cancer?

These are all indicators that you are in an unsafe relationship. And even though you love your partner with all of your being, this relationship may be very unsafe for you to continue in. You may need to speak to someone to consider your options and possibly leave this relationship.

Only you can decide this. You can recover and go on to thrive in life. It takes one decision that only you can make. If this is you, then please contact someone who can help you. I want you to know Your Life Matters.